A guy’s penis or more precise his penis size is a topic that always seems to come up at one point or another when people talk about sex. We previously wrote a post looking at the link between penis size and sexual peformance. Truth is, the size of a guy’s cock is the topic which has the most penis size myths, tall tails and misconceptions attached to it.
Medical studies aren’t always conclusive and come up with a varying degree of results as to what is the average penis size or what a “big” size actually is. But help is at hand (so to speak). A sex worker from the Las Vegas-area adult resort and legal brothel Sheri’s Ranch has recently exposed the most commonly perpetuated penis size myths.
For those who may not know, Sheri’s Ranch is a legal brothel, resort and spa located in Pahrump, Nevada, sixty miles west of Las Vegas. The Ranch was purchased by a former Chicago detective Chuck Lee in 2001 and was recently remodelled into a fantasyland of suites and bungalows. It offers themed environments such as Lustful Locker Room, Naughty Classroom and Geisha Girl Bedroom, based on customers’ most popular requests.
Blithe, Sheri’s Ranch resident penis size expert
Blithe, a stunning green eyed cutie who works at Sheri’s Ranch as a licensed prostitute, believes that sex workers are best suited to speak on the controversial subject of penis size. She states that sex workers belong to a professional group with the most experience dealing with penises in relation to sex and sexual environments.
Prostitutes are penis experts
“Prostitutes are penis experts. There is no other group of professionals – not scientists, not academic researchers, not journalists – that have more experience viewing and handling a large number and wide variety of penises in a sexual environment.” Blithe says in a blog posted on the Sheri’s Ranch website, explaining her expertise (or should that be expert-tease) on the topic of size. She considers there to be three common myths about penis size.
Penis Size Myths #1: There is such a thing as an “ideal” penis size
“There is a lot of speculation about what the perfect penis is supposed to look like, how long or wide it needs to be in order to deliver pleasure and what’s considered ideal” observes Blithe.
“I’ve seen a lot of cocks and they come in all shapes, lengths, widths, and colours. Some bend upwards, some downwards, some curve to the side. Some are almost the size of my forearm, some the size of my thumb. I’ve seen penises with a sharp bend like a water faucet, and penises shaped like a mushroom, with a large head on a smaller shaft.
Blithe then goes on to criticise websites that perpetuate the myths about what the ideal penis size should be. “While some online resources will try to trick people into believing that there is such a thing as an ‘ideal penis,’ I’m here to tell you that as long as your penis is clean and healthy, then its ideal for sex and capable of pleasuring a woman.”
Penis Size Myths #2: The size of your penis determines how much you can please a woman
Blithe also refutes the common opinion that a larger penis gives women greater sexual pleasure. “Again, the size of a penis does not mean you are better in bed, it is simply false. Having a thick or long cock doesn’t mean you’re automatically great at sex. In my experience what matters most is reading your partner’s body, being sympathetic to her unique needs, and paying attention to what she responds favourably to.
“No matter what the size, if you apply pressure in the right areas or use the right rhythm it’s going to make her feel good.”
Penis Size Myths #3: Women gossip about the size of a penis
Men always seem to think that when women talk about sex they gossip about how big a guy’s cock is. “When women do kiss and tell”, Blithe says, “ they focus almost always on a man’s performance and not on his penis size at all. “When another woman describes good sex to me, she’ll very rarely mention the size or appearance of her partner’s penis,” she says, explaining that women are not nearly as fixated on penis size as men are.
“No matter what the size, if you apply pressure in the right areas or use the right rhythm it’s going to make her feel good.”
Blithe also reminds men that “you can and should use more than just your penis to please a woman,” noting that sexual prowess involves more than one part of a person’s anatomy.
“What I’ve discovered during my time as a sex worker is that what matters most is the person attached to the penis, not the penis itself. If that person is sensitive to his partner’s needs and takes the time to discover what turns her on, he will be a successful lover and make her orgasm again and again.”
So there you have it guys, a working girl’s opinion on all the talk about penis size proves once again that it isn’t the size but what you do with it that matters.
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Image of Blithe courtesy of Sheri's Ranch and BSG PR