How to kiss a woman?
“A kiss is just a kiss” is what the lyrics in the 1931 song “As time goes bye” by Herman Hupfeld say. But most of us know that a kiss is a lot more than just a brief touching of lips by two people. A kiss given under the right circumstances can enflame passion and arouse emotions. We have all tried and failed to kiss the girl we had a crush on at some point and wondered where we went wrong.
So how do you kiss a woman? Well hold on because you’re about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a woman to kiss you without fear of rejection. In the advanced version of this technique, you can even get the girl you’re talking to lean in to kiss you!
So if you’ve ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR you’ve gotten “the cheek” you know why having a rock-solid technique to moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial.
Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a woman because:
- First: you’ve invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and there simply isn’t enough time in your night to get this far and then hit a brick wall and have to move on.
- Second: screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all your chances of moving on from here to seduction.
But can you blame them? Most guys don’t have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently!
Even on a good night, most guys will typically find only one woman they hit it off with at the bar where a kiss is probably even a remote possibility.
So normally, you’d have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss.
But luckily, I’ve already gone through all those failures for you (until I discovered this killer technique), and can present the best way to avoid failure and shortcut right to success.
Does that sound good?
The Kiss Technique makes it so that when you’re speaking to a woman, you can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her think about kissing you!
Pretty powerful stuff…
If you use this technique, suddenly making a woman want to kiss you will be something you have total control over.
However if you decide to “wing it” at this stage like most guys, you’re going to run into problems…
First, you have no idea how physically receptive she is to kissing you. Does she fancy? Would she consider kissing you? A tried and true rule to go by is this:
Your hesitation = Her reservation
What I mean by that is that the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, simply because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations.
When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don’t do it the right way at the right time, you’ll come off as needy (like you don’t have a lot of options with women). Because if you did have a lot of options, you wouldn’t be worrying about the kiss with this woman.
So how do we show that you are absolutely NOT needy (even if you kind of feel like you are) and provide a way so that you will not fear rejection because you will know for sure ahead of time that she is wanting to kiss you?
Well, we use what’s called “The Kiss Technique”.
This technique involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss.
The first kissing technique is called “triangular gazing”.
This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then looking at her mouth. In a way drawing an imaginary triangle with your eyes by connecting the dots so to speak.
When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to think about kissing her, because this action is already anchored to the thought of kissing someone.
Even if you look at a woman you’re not attracted to and look at her mouth, you can start to think about kissing her, and you will become MORE attracted to her.
The good news is… the same happens for women.
The even BETTER news is… you can actually lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted. How? By using the second half of the recipe… which is another psychological concept
The second kissing technique is called “mirroring”.
Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with them. It is a technique which is well known and used by sales people and has proven its tremendous value in closing a deal.
When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a combination that will make her subconsciously think about kissing you.
After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first, only for 2 seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer.
Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for 2 seconds, 3 seconds, then 5 seconds. Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth.
When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she’s ready to kiss you.
And voila! The Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of “making a move”.
You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you, and get to be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly sexy. She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman and feel safe and confident moving on with you.
Now, if you want to take this technique to the next level and make it so that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss them, you only have to know one magical sentence.
If you want to learn more about the amazing Kiss Technique and the bizarre, magical sentence that activates her “sexual triggers” have a look at this free video. It will teach you the secrets that will make her lean in and practically beg you for the kiss
This article comes courtesy of Joshua Pellicer at the Tao of Badass.
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