How to Give a Woman an Orgasm in 5 Easy Steps

Guys, is it really so hard to give a woman an orgasm? Many guys (and women) say that giving a woman an orgasm can be very difficult to do, but many men also claim that it’s very easy … IF you know what to do. So the question is, do you? Do you know how to give your woman an orgasm?

Any health, loving and lasting relationship counts a great sex life as a key ingredient. And if you look around you, it’s probably not hard to tell which couples are truly happy with each other. These are the couples that still look at each other with lust in their eyes! So what’s their secret? There may be several reasons, but you can bet that one of the common reasons for happy couples is probably because they are BOTH sexually satisfied in their relationship.

A lot of people know that women don’t reach an orgasm as easily or as quickly as men. What many don’t realise is that this does nothing but build sexual frustration. And sexual frustration can manifest itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one day, you both wake up and realise that you no longer have passion for each other and in your lives and then the relationship comes to an end.

The good news is it’s really not hard at all to make a woman reach an orgasm. But you both have to work at it, which, if you think about it, is part of the fun as well!

How to Make Her ‘Come’ – A Step-by-Step Guide

You may find this step-by-step guide useful. It is one of the many tools that Gabrielle Moore, an expert on sex education has created. Click here to learn more about other tools by visiting her website…

Step 1 to great orgasms

Engage in a lot of foreplay! Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her mind and make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand. It’s also a great way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man’s way of taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about intimacy.

Foreplay doesn’t have to be listed to the bedroom; it can start hours or even days in advance and is really only limited by your sexual imagination. As you keep this ‘sexual tension’ high, you’ll find that it’s actually easier to bring her to an orgasm once you both do engage in sex.

Step 2 to better orgasms

If foreplay is the ‘primer’, then oral sex is the next big step. Did you know that many women actually claim that oral sex is the ONLY way they can reach an orgasm? So if you both want it to be that way, then don’t resist.

When you do go down on her, don’t rush it. Show her that you really love her by lavishing her genitals with your undivided attention. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination so to speak.

At the start, just tease and lick softly and lovingly. Once she’s focused on that part of her body, increase the tempo. When you notice that her breathing is getting faster and harder or if her legs are becoming taut, move your attention to her clitoris. Tease it by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and then apply more pressure and lick faster.

If she gives any indication at all that she’s really turned on, remember this: DON’T change anything. Keep the tempo of what you’re doing and she’ll reach her orgasm soon enough. A lot of guys make the mistake of speeding up or changing what they are doing when they notice their partner is very turned on. Don’t make that mistake. Changing what your are doing will spoil the tension which is building up and will bring her down from her orgasm in no time, leading to frustration.

Step 3 to amazing orgasms

If your tongue doesn’t bring her to an immediate orgasm, don’t despair. Don’t forget that your fingers can be put to good use too! Use your index finger to ‘trace’ the outline of her labia. Be sure to touch her gently. This is guaranteed to electrify her body. After this, place your index and middle finger together and then gently draw circles around her clitoris.

Pay attention to her body: is it in a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a string? By paying attention you can gauge just how turned on she is. Don’t forget to pay attention to her moans and groans as well.

You can alternate using your tongue and fingers to stimulate her clitoris and just like what’s advised above, if she indicates something that’s really turning her on, just keep doing it! To learn more about other techniques to stimulate her, click here…

Step 4 to a mind blowing orgasm

If clitoral stimulation has not brought on an orgasm yet, then why not try G-spot stimulation! Assuming that she’s already hot and wet, slowly insert your index and middle finger inside her vagina, palm up. Once inside, position your fingers to the “11 o’clock” position. Slowly try and locate a small bump or swelling (like an engorged clitoris) on her vaginal wall. Once you find this spot, congratulations… you’ve located the elusive G-spot and you can start stimulating one of the most amazing please areas of her body.

Step 5 to fantastic G-spot orgasms

You can stimulate the G-spot in many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or frenzied circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light switch. If you wish, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris while stimulating her G-spot. This will surely give her an orgasm to be remembered!

These are only 5 of our tips on how to give your woman an amazing orgasm. If you want to find out more about the female orgasm or how you (or your partner) can learn to climax then it may be worthwhile to check out the very informative series by sex expert Gabrielle Moore who gives valuable tips and hints to get the earth moving again for you.

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